Check off all the statements that apply to you…

I am heterosexual

I have never been discriminated against because of my sexuality

I have never been the only person of my sexuality in a room.

I have never been mocked/alienated for my sexuality

I have never been a victim of violence because of my sexuality

I feel comfortable in the gender I was born as.

I still identify as the gender I was born in.

I have never tried to change my gender

I have never been shamed for being sexually attracted to someone of the same gender

I have never had to hide my partner in public and from my family for fear of violence and alienation

I have never been called violent slurs because of my sexuality

I have never lied about my sexuality

I never had to “come out.”

I never doubted my parents’ acceptance of my sexuality.

I have never pretended to be “just friends” with my significant other.

I have never been ostracized by my religion and culture for my sexual orientation.

I have never been told my sexual orientation is ‘unnatural’

I have never been told that my sexuality is “just a phase.”

I have never been violently threatened because of my sexuality

 

I am a cis man.

I have never been called a slut for the clothes I wear or for my sexual history

I have never called ‘damaged’ for having a child outside of marriage

I have never been denied an opportunity because of my gender.

I have never been accused of ‘sleeping my way to the top’

I make more money than my professional counterparts of a different gender.

I have never been told I needed to dumb myself down to get a partner

I have never felt unsafe because of my gender.

I have never been catcalled.

I have never been sexually harassed or assaulted.

I have never felt unsafe in a room with the opposite sex

I have never felt threatened getting into a taxi or uber alone

I feel safe chilling with strangers

 

I am white

I was raised by both my parents

I have never been discriminated against because of my race

I am rarely ever the only person of my race in a room.

I have never been told I am attractive "for my race."

I have never been a victim of violence because of my race.

I have never been called a racial slur.

I have never been told I "sound white."

A stranger has never asked to touch my hair or asked if it is real.

I work in a salaried job.

My family and I have never lived below the poverty line.

I don’t have any student loans.

I have never gone to bed hungry.

I have never been homeless.

My parents paid for my studies and cover some of my bills.

I don’t rely on public transportation.

I have never felt poor.

I have never had to worry about making rent.

I have had multiple unpaid internships.

I went to private school and was taught in my own language

I graduated high school.

I went and graduated from university.

I had a car even before I got a job

I have travelled internationally.